perception...
Perception is what we think of something and it shaped or pattern by our and others experiences, what other told us and what happen around us.
So secara kebiasannya with lack of intuition (which most of us memang lack including me) our perception atu salah.. sebab atu ada pepatah “don’t judge the book by its cover”.
Masalahnya we biasa ambil bulat2 what others said..cos we don’t use our brain to think utk menilai sendiri.
Most of us cannot see the other side of that person sebab atu we tend to wrongly or miss judged. Try to see things as if you are looking at 3D.. then you understand and find the truth..insyaAllah..
Remember nobody is perfect even me and you! So ketepikan buruk sangka..
I’m Just Human!I might be wrong... :P
By: Feenz
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Memang betul...atu tah masalahnya dengan manusia di bumi ani termasuk saya sendiri. I think we need to improve or promote our Emotional and Spiritual Intelligence.So that perception tani atu boleh di perbetulkan. Memang nada orang yang perfect tapi Nabi Muhammad S.A.W is the perfect example of human being with excellent IQ, EQ and SQ.
Ana A.
8:35 PM (11 hours ago) Reply
Nice topic to discuss about... For me, I will percept a person I first meet from the way ...
(I) he/she communicate/talk and sharing experience... From the content of his/her speech, we can determine whether this person is knowledgeable, ego type, manipulative type personality type , or others, For sure, if we meet stranger for the first time.. we can get something for him/her... if we try to talk to them.
(II) Lifestyle and appearance : Smoker? style they are following? What type of car they are using? Branded car? or low profile car? And Others.. By saying this.. it doesn't meant 100% .. I am judging "A Book From Its Cover".... I personally think that... By observing this In POSITIVE Way.. not negative way. Ok... For example: If we saw a person wearing coat and put on tie, neat hair holding file and a pen in his pocket... for sure we know this person is working... may be as... salesman, office boy, insurance or ....
I would like to mix with stranger and talk to them.. whether they are assaulted type, abusive type... or manipulate type... or coming from diffrent social class.. or different races... I will prefer mix with them and continue the relationship... as long as we know to handle and not influence or offended by them. That again.. depend on our own personality and experience. That why I like my job very much as.. psychiatric nurse because from this job.. it makes me more mature and I am able to gain knowledge from stranger and mix with public (stranger) and able to help them... From stranger.. sometimes.. we can learn something if we have "self-awareness"...
If we have self-awareness, postive thinking we can socialize well with people. I always try myself not to mix with people who are well-known for their hiporcary, in other words I choose people who I mix with. Coz sometimes you just can't fit into that group due to your personality or life esperiences. Just take for an example: You cannot mixed apple with grapes, you cannot be an applegrapes, you just can be either one. If you are an apple you cannot be a grape and vice versa. Sometimes people had bad impression on these people who does not want to mix and label them as"sombong' what so ever.
So, this also contribute to the PERCEPTION jua....depends on how people see you.
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