How many times in your life have you either thought or said “I wish I hadn’t said that’ or “ I wish I had reacted differently’? The answer is probably too many times to count, and that is normal for most of us.
In simple terms, becoming emotionally intelligent will reduce the number of times you will find yourself either thinking or saying such things in future. What do you understand by Emotional Intelligent?
OR
How often do we hear someone say “ I just could’nt help it” or ‘ it was completely outside my control’ whenreferring to their actions or verbal responses to a difficult situation.
In fact, we can always ‘help it’.
The difference between someone who uses EI and someone who does not is that the emotionally intelligent person will fight to maintain control of their emotions and refuse to allow them to dictate their actions unless appropriate. The person who is not using EI will simply give sway to the emotions, regardless of the outcome (an then, of course say “I couldn’t help it”, it just happened.
April 24, 2009
Topic1:Reply2: Perception
perception...
Perception is what we think of something and it shaped or pattern by our and others experiences, what other told us and what happen around us.
So secara kebiasannya with lack of intuition (which most of us memang lack including me) our perception atu salah.. sebab atu ada pepatah “don’t judge the book by its cover”.
Masalahnya we biasa ambil bulat2 what others said..cos we don’t use our brain to think utk menilai sendiri.
Most of us cannot see the other side of that person sebab atu we tend to wrongly or miss judged. Try to see things as if you are looking at 3D.. then you understand and find the truth..insyaAllah..
Remember nobody is perfect even me and you! So ketepikan buruk sangka..
I’m Just Human!I might be wrong... :P
By: Feenz
Perception is what we think of something and it shaped or pattern by our and others experiences, what other told us and what happen around us.
So secara kebiasannya with lack of intuition (which most of us memang lack including me) our perception atu salah.. sebab atu ada pepatah “don’t judge the book by its cover”.
Masalahnya we biasa ambil bulat2 what others said..cos we don’t use our brain to think utk menilai sendiri.
Most of us cannot see the other side of that person sebab atu we tend to wrongly or miss judged. Try to see things as if you are looking at 3D.. then you understand and find the truth..insyaAllah..
Remember nobody is perfect even me and you! So ketepikan buruk sangka..
I’m Just Human!I might be wrong... :P
By: Feenz
Topic 1: Reply 1: What is your impression
What your impression..
M Proton wrote:
“kalau at first atu kadang2 nya beri confuse pulang maklumlah they are stranger, but maybe it is our culture to see people at first impression atu atau we tend to dengar dari mulut or cerita org rather than knowing that person personally..if orang atu fitnah kah apa kah pecaya tah jua..maybe some may see as that but if me kadang2 terpedaya jua either terpedaya they are good or the other way round..we get along with that people and analyse on our own...buka mata hati bukan saja mata..hehe personality orang atu will kelihatan.”
post by: gen2
6:21 PM (13 minutes ago)
M Proton wrote:
“kalau at first atu kadang2 nya beri confuse pulang maklumlah they are stranger, but maybe it is our culture to see people at first impression atu atau we tend to dengar dari mulut or cerita org rather than knowing that person personally..if orang atu fitnah kah apa kah pecaya tah jua..maybe some may see as that but if me kadang2 terpedaya jua either terpedaya they are good or the other way round..we get along with that people and analyse on our own...buka mata hati bukan saja mata..hehe personality orang atu will kelihatan.”
post by: gen2
6:21 PM (13 minutes ago)
TOPIC 1: What is you perception on the person you first met?
What do you think about this? why and how do you perceive a person you first met? what is your first impression on them? their attitudes? behaviour? How do you make judgement?
How do you decide whether you want to continue the relationship ? Well, it's up to you and please share your experiences and e-mail to prettyWowWow.17@gmail.com and I will post your opinion in this blog.
How do you decide whether you want to continue the relationship ? Well, it's up to you and please share your experiences and e-mail to prettyWowWow.17@gmail.com and I will post your opinion in this blog. "Appearance of things change according to the emotions and thus we see magic and beauty in them, while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves". -Kahlil Gilbran.
"We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are. -Anais Nin".
April 23, 2009
ESQ TRAINING? ANYBODY KNOW WHEN IS THE NEXT TRAINING IN BRUNEI?
Pagi! Pagi! Pagi! dan salam semut.
Salam kepada ESQ Alumni semua!
Saya masih tercari-cari adakah ESQ training masih lagi di adakan di Brunei? Bila kah?
Saya merasa terpanggil-panggil sekali lagi untuk menghadirinya. Saya mengikuti ESQ pada Dec 2007 (angkatan ke 4). Sekiranya ada sesiapa yng mempunyai info mengenai perkara ini please e-mail to PrettyWowWow.17@gmail.com.
Thank You!
SEKAPUR SIRIH
Assalamualaikum,
"Knowledge is power"..ayat-ayat yang sering di sebut bagi golongan intelectuall. Secara peribadi saya sangat bersetuju dan bagi menyahut dan mempraktikannya saya merasa terpanggil bagi mencipta satu blog lagi selain "My World" iaitu "bincang2 sihat" bagi tujuan pembelajaran dan berkongsi ilmu. Saya berharap niat ikhlas saya dapat di rasakan dan di jankiti seperti virus kepada pembaca yang budiman dan ikhlas dalam berkongsi pengalaman masing-masing di dalam blog ini. Di harap ia nya menjadi pencetus minda dan menjadikan kita seorang yang penuh berilmu dan beremosi yang tinggi kerana "Knowledge is power "...............
Wassalam
Hjh Radiah Omar (auntiesue)
"Knowledge is power"..ayat-ayat yang sering di sebut bagi golongan intelectuall. Secara peribadi saya sangat bersetuju dan bagi menyahut dan mempraktikannya saya merasa terpanggil bagi mencipta satu blog lagi selain "My World" iaitu "bincang2 sihat" bagi tujuan pembelajaran dan berkongsi ilmu. Saya berharap niat ikhlas saya dapat di rasakan dan di jankiti seperti virus kepada pembaca yang budiman dan ikhlas dalam berkongsi pengalaman masing-masing di dalam blog ini. Di harap ia nya menjadi pencetus minda dan menjadikan kita seorang yang penuh berilmu dan beremosi yang tinggi kerana "Knowledge is power "...............
Wassalam
Hjh Radiah Omar (auntiesue)
April 22, 2009
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